well, there is this sudden thought dat i wanna blog 2day when i walked alone from the gift shop back to my house ( normally i m accompanied by my dear hsmate lol) which i think its quite random to come across my mind..
i thk i judged ppl too much,
most ppl does not show who they are when they 1st know each other
and yea i shamelessly admit, i does fall into the group.
but yet i rely on 1st impression too much and judge ppl subjectively..
i tend to despise ppl when i find out something they did and i dislike it,
but who is perfect anyway?
just because of dat very little small things, i judge i make conclusion.
this is very bad
when i myself doesnt show who i m in the beginning,
i cant expect wad i c is who they really are
they might be having some very good characteristic dat i ignore to dig deep..
despising ppl, at the same time ppl are despising you..
judging ppl, while others are judging you..
yea, i focus too much on the black dot in a white paper, with a high magnificient and i forget that the white space is so abundant..
this world is wide, dont restrict yourself too much :)
okay, i noe its weird for all this thought to come suddenly, but weird things happen all the times ..
believe not, i had a cantonese conversation with an indian ah pek, he even corrected me dat today is the 6th day of cny not 5th day lol.. the gong hei gat choy he spoke is so so so right in tone! hahaz, and he said he's frm hong kong.. lala -_-
i do agree with you that we shouldn't judge people based on first impression, and i am a strong believer of time which eventually unravels everything.
ReplyDeletehowever, judgements are important too, for they allow us to make decisions, and whatever decision you have made at that point of time reflects upon your choice, your thoughts, and when we reflect upon the choices we have made, we can reason why we led to that kind of decision and current situation. and it's not a bad thing to make mistakes too, for we all do learn and grow from them, and we tend to never repeat them again. :)
i'm not sure how relevant is it to your post, but this is just what came across my mind after i read it, which struck a chord in me.
i'm in middle of work now and i'm supposedly disallowed to digress, so i'll reply your msg in a few hours' time k? by the meantime, take care and you have my love :D
xxx
hehee, yea, u gt the point there, we decide based on the nature instinct and sense, which is very true most of the time... ^^
ReplyDeletebut i m more to reflecting that day, because i feel like i thk too little and observe one-sided only before i make that conclusion.
its like some people, u dun like them because of some minor( or major? ) behavior that annoys you but actually they werent as bad as u thk in the first place, perhaps i will miss a lot of gud ppl who i can fren with but i dont jz bcz i made the prior conclusion to not mix around.
hey u mz tc overthere yea, work hard and giv urself some rest too, cant strain too much, if nt ll age v fast ~~ i dun wan my bao bei become lao ah ma lor..
u hav my love and kisses too xoxo
jia yous jia yous!!